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Hey You — What Are You Doing at 8 p.m.?
If you’re home in your PJs watching Netflix with a glass of wine and day-two stir fry like I am, I have a fun idea for you – Talk about sex. You know — what you want, what you hate, how you keep it...
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An Ode to a Loyal Reader
Once upon a time, there was a man named Larry who quickly became one of my most loyal followers. For those of you who have commented on posts, you’re probably familiar with him. I’ve never personally...
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Oh Love, Sweet Self-Love…
Hey there lady, You’ve had quite the year, haven’t you darling? It’s been full of changes and challenges, incredible new beginnings and the start of madly, profoundly falling in love with yourself....
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I Don’t Really Miss You
I don’t miss you. Not really. I think that I miss you because I’m terrified — petrified even — of never meeting another you. Actually, I don’t honestly want to meet someone like you– I want to meet...
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This Baby Loves Her Back
My boobs were bigger when I was 10 years old than they are now. Something happened the summer before I started middle school — my mom let me shave my legs for the first time (at our lake house in a...
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So Very Worth It
In a few weeks, I’ll celebrate the third anniversary with the city I love. It’s seen me through for better and for worst. It’s pushed me out of a love I hoped would last and into days I never wanted to...
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Feelings Know Best
My friend A has a sense of adventure that I admire as much as I fear. She galivants around the world — by herself — hitch hiking and talking to strangers who quickly become stories in her never-ending...
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You’re Never Going to Meet Someone
You’re never going to meet someone online. Not when your profile looks like that — how old are those photos? No selfies. No professional pictures. Look like you’re having fun. Lots and lots of fun —...
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I Love it When it Rains in New York
It was raining when I moved to New York, exactly three years ago today. I sat at the Charlotte Airport, resting my elbow on my overstuffed carry-on bag and my purse while nervously applying chapstick...
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She Can Get Some Satisfaction
It was snowing on Saturday when I left my apartment to catch the downtown train. I’ve been aching for a change and for the temperatures of Spring, so naturally my hair became a prime canvas. I’m not...
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There Are Guys
There are guys who are so very, very wrong for you. But they feel really good. They’re intoxicating with spirits that are so complicated it’s incredibly sexy. There are guys who love being by your side...
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Perfectly Good Men
Sitting across from a tall sports-fanatic in Hell’s Kitchen a handful of Saturdays ago, I considered my escape route. The establishment – an Irish-y bar with many beers on tap – was dark enough. It...
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Believing in the Unknown
I traveled to North Carolina last weekend for some much needed time with my family. The three days and some loose change of hours were blessed and bittersweet — we all knew the time was too short, as...
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Delete. Delete. Delete.
Sitting in my blue fuzzy robe, drinking a glass of my favorite Chilean Cabernet, I chuckled as I deactivated every last dating profile I have. Delete. Delete. Delete. Writing about love for a living...
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Another Friday Night
One more stretch, you can do it, I encouraged myself early last Saturday morning, listening to the off-beat of my feet in Central Park. As I often do when my body can’t keep up with my racing thoughts,...
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I Thought of You Today
I thought of you today while riding the subway downtown to a date I wasn’t quite sure was actually a date or not. I caught myself not being able to turn my attention away from an older couple — sitting...
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The Brown Slingback Heels
Tossing another abandoned sweater onto a pile nearly as tall as my desk, I admired my new-found ability to just let go of things. I’m bad about spring cleaning, mainly because I’m a little messy by...
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I Just Want to Dance
I walked from 50th and 7th west to Hell’s Kitchen, listening to old music on my iPhone and silently reminding myself that yes, Frankie, the best is yet to come. I carefully avoided that street where...
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Finding My Way Back to Me
Wrapped up in the warmth of moment you know doesn’t come around very often, I closed my eyes and listened to the gentle crashing of the waves. My best friend was breathing deeply next to me, slowly...
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You’d Figure It Out
What if you find yourself 40 years old, single, living alone in a tiny apartment in the West Village? What if you search high and low, put up with the jerks, the gems — and everything wild and...
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